We refuse to see how bad something is until it completely destroys us

It takes a real man to handle you, embrace your imperfections, tell you the truth no matter how brutal it is, never give up on you no matter how hard it is, pleasure you, treat you like you’re the only one and give up the game.

When someone walks out of your life, let them. There’s no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren’t the one that gave up

When it comes to relationships people are always so scared of the “what ifs” that they forget the “what is.” They spend so much time thinking, “What if I get hurt?” and “What if it doesn’t work out?” that they stop thinking about the things that are already real. They forget the feeling they get when the person they love walks into a room and the excitement that rushes through them when the phone rings because it might be the person they are waiting to heart from. Never let the fear of what if stop you from letting yourself take a chance on love…because “what if” this person is the person you’re destined to spend the rest of your life with?

There are things we don’t want to happen but we have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and peopel we can’t live without but have to let go.